Monday, April 12, 2010

Little Kid, Big Heart...

My best friend Rich has cancer.

Last year I wrote a post called Hockey Heals. It was about a special night we shared together at Madison Square Garden. Right around that time, my daughter had heard me talking to my wife about Rich and his battle.

I explained to her that he was sick and that he had a disease called cancer. She asked a lot of questions but seemed to understand most of what I was telling her.

Every now and then she asks me how Rich is doing. She asks if his cancer is getting better. She asks if it's contagious. She asks about his wife and his little boy. It always seems so random and comes to pass as if we were talking about the weather.

This past Friday, my family and I went to temple for a Friday night family service. It's not something we do often. As a matter of fact, it's not something we do ever. Suffice it to say, we were sitting in the sanctuary when the Rabbi asked the congregation if anyone had someone they would like to pray for this evening. Slowly but surely, hands began to pop up randomly throughout the congregation and names would follow shorty after. I tracked the Rabbi's eyes as they wandered over to our side of the room.

She pointed right in our direction.

Unbeknownst to me, my daughter had raised her hand quietly and without any encouragement.

Rabbi - "Yes?"

7 Year Old - "Rich."

The Rabbi continued on with a nod and a comforting smile.

Nothing can describe the impact that the soft, sweet sound of my daughter's voice had on my heart. I was overcome for a moment and then felt my eyes well up. I placed my hand on my daughter's knee and kissed her head. It was one of the most touching moments of my life.

That night after we put the girls to bed, my wife called me into the dining room to look at something. I wandered over; tired from the long day and the emotional evening.

Wife - "She wanted to show you this."

Out-Numbered - "What is it?"

I looked down at the table and this is what I saw...

I guess my daughter is like me. She thinks about Rich all the time. She worries about him being sick. She worries about his family. It's good to know that a person's age has nothing to do with the size of their heart...

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32 comments:

  1. What a sweet, sweet girl you have.

    These kids, they understand more than we think sometimes.

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  2. Your daughter has me inspired for the day-thanks!

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  3. Wow. That's incredible, man. You've got a great kid on your hands. (Two, really.)

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  4. Your daughter is amazing!! Kids really do have big hearts. Yours especially.

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  5. morning cries rock...Thanks for sharing. You have done a great job...hugs and prayers!!!

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  6. Love that daughter of yours! xo

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  7. Your daughter is AMAZING. You and your wife do an awesome job that your kids can have a good heart

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  8. I had tears in my eyes after reading this post. You and your wife have instilled this compassion in her. But I think that your daughter is special. Very few 7 year olds think about anyone beyond their own families.

    My parents used to say if someone is beautiful inside it shows and you become beautiful outside. Thank you for starting my day with a little hope.:)

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  9. That's like the greatest story ever told.

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  10. What a great story. And what a lucky little girl to have parents that show her what compassion is.

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  11. Wow... I am so welled up right now. Your little girl has a sweet loving soul.

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  12. Wow. That is sweet. Oh so sweet.

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  13. Good luck to Rick....sounds like you are raising a great kid.

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  14. Wow, way to make my cry while siting in a coffee shop. Amazing post.

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  15. You kid is indeed amazing, as are you. Thanks for this. It's heartwarming to know families and parents and kids like you and yours are out there. Cheesy, I'm sure. But so true. Y'all rock.

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  16. This gave me the chills...

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  17. That is beautiful, what an old soul she is. Sometimes kids seem wiser than all of us. Maybe it is because they don't have all the cynicism that we learn as we grow up. Whatever it it, you guys are doing something right with your kids.

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  18. Wow!!! Amazing!!! Xoxo!!!!

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  19. That gave me a good morning cry! You guys are incredible parents to have raised such an incredible little girl with such a big heart. Bravo to you both and love to Rich.

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  20. Just beautiful. Rich will be in my thoughts too, dear friend.

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  21. Kids are so amazing. What a sweet girl you have!

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  22. Wow, I obviously don't know you or your family, but even just made me tear up a little. Very sweet :)

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  23. Great kid, and only 7! Imagine the impact a heart like hers will have in the world over the course of her lifetime! Thanks for sharing.

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  24. she does surprise us....
    that's why we LOVE her!!!

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  25. What a magnificent heart your daughter has. You know you always move me, thanks for getting your daughter in on the act. I'll be out buying more tissues if you need me (-:

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  26. that's really heartfelt, i welled up and everything. Not a full tear but damn close. Maybe you should go to Fri. night services more often...
    love u

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  27. Wow! I'm proud to be Sophie's Poppy and your Dad! I can't wait till next week when I see all of you. It's been too long. Thank you! I love you all.

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  28. What a wonderful daughter you have. She has a great, big heart.

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  29. Yes, Jason,

    This daughter of yours, my eldest grandchild, is very, very special. I knew that all along.
    She will continue to make you proud...just as you have made me.

    Love you!

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  30. Ok. I don't know what's making me cry more, this post or the comments! Your daughter is PRECIOUS. You are truly blessed.

    - savvy
    http://savvybrown.com

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  31. Oh sweet jeebus... this made me cry. I can only HOPE my daughter (soon to be 4) will be half this sweet and empathetic.

    FTR, I have two friends living w/ cancer. And a Twitter buddy who just lost her husband to cancer earlier this week. Eff cancer. It can #suckit til the cows come home. Your daughter RULES.

    Going to go hug my baby now. And maybe cry a little more. Oh, and I'll be saying a prayer for your friend Rich.

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  32. What a thoughtful, big-hearted beautiful little person she is! Now stop making me cry ;o)

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